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What kind of men do women find attractive?

Most men think you need looks, money, and fame to attract women.

Prima facie , this seems about right. Listen in on a gaggle of females chattering on about what they want in a man. They’ll yap on about how they want a man sporting Johnny Depp’s face, Christian Bale’s physique, Warren Buffett’s money, and John Lennon’s fame.

Yet many of these females will sleep with and marry gentleman who don’t even possess one of these things.

How do we resolve the paradox?

Here’s the answer: the attributes women think they want in a man and the attributes that unconsciously drive them to see a man as a Prize are more diverse than Angelina Jolie’s kids.

I’m going to talk about one of these attributes: assuming a girl sees you as the Prize from the moment you meet her.

In the movie Empire Strikes Back there’s a scene where Han Solo is about to be frozen in carbonite.

Here’s how George Lucas originally wrote the scene:

Princess Lea says, “I love you.”

Han gushes back, “I love you too.”

Lucas thought the writing was romantic. But really it was just cheesy.

So the day they filmed the scene, Harrison Ford, the actor who plays Han Solo, veered off script and did a little ad libbing.

When Princess Leia said, “I love you,” like a pimp he responded with a terse, “I know.”

I’ll go out on a limb and guess that his ad libbed response is what turned this movie into a cult classic.

Whenever females hear Harrison Ford deliver the words “I know,” their hearts thuds with excitement.

Don’t women find his words a bit arrogant?

I wouldn’t doubt it.

But get this: when a man sees himself as a Prize, women are hard-wired to sexual respond to him.

“What if a woman isn’t attracted to me? Will this still work?” you may be wonder.

Yes. Beliefs are contagious. If your belief is strong enough, she’ll start believing it too.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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I want you to imagine Jake – a 6’1″ man with strapping muscles, a chiseled jaw, and the voice of Barry White. He spots Jessica – a five-foot six-inch female with golden locks, large breasts, and red high heels. Within minutes of conversation, he starts dancing with her. Minutes later, he’s playing tonsil hockey with her.

Imagine a planet exactly like planet earth. It has exact replicas of everything on planet earth – the same bars, restaurants, political leaders… and so on. Just like on planet earth, H20 is water. The exact same events that happen on earth happen on this planet. There’s even a twin earth Jake approaching a twin earth Susan.

Seems exactly the same as earth, right?

But here’s where things take a turn for the worse: twin earth Jessica ends up slapping twin earth Jake across the face.

That’s because earth Jake and twin earth Jake have one major difference: their body language.

While earth Jake held strong eye contact, twin earth Jake’s eyes were shifting around like two pinballs.

While chatting to earth Susan, earth Jake leaned back. Alas, twin earth Jake leaned in while chatting to his girl. This made him come across as a desperate puppy dog.

When earth Jessica asked earth Jake an uncomfortable question, his body language was nonreactive. When twin earth Jessica asked twin earth Jake an uncomfortable question, he started twitching.

When talking to female strangers is your body language more like earth Jake or twin earth Jake? If it’s more like twin earth Jake, your body language is severely crippling your potential success with women. If that’s the case, I want you to do the following exercises.

1) Practice holding a steady gaze when talking to women: this will make you come across a lot more dominant and attractive to the opposite sex.

2) Practice leaning back when interacting with females: too many guys lean in when talking to girls in noisy places because they worry that the women won’t hear them. Don’t do this. It comes across as needy. When you lean back it forces the woman to lean into you. When she leans into you, you become the Prize she wants to win over.

3) When a woman insults you or asks you something uncomfortable, don’t react: when women ask embarrassing questions, most men squirm around like little girls. This makes them come across as weak and unattractive. Plus, the person least reactive in a social situation is in control of the interaction. If you train yourself to be nonreactive, you’ll be very powerful with women.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

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In this article I’m going to teach you how to attract women through qualifying and challenging them.

The first step is developing high standards.

Many men find themselves alone or, even worse, in destructive relationships because they have no standards.

“As long as the girl is hot,” they tell themselves, “I’m willing to tolerate her rhymes-with-itchy attitude and put up with her controlling behavior.”

“If I expect too much from her, I’ll push her away,” they worry.

Don’t do this. Unless, of course, you’re a masochist.

It kills all attraction faster than insecticide kills bugs and gives women a VIP pass to disrespect you.

On the other hand, when you have high standards, women feel compelled to live up to them.

How do you develop high standards?

I’m going give you two ways to develop high standards.

1) Take a few moments to think about your ideal woman.

If you’re looking for a wife, think about all the qualities that make up a good wife – e.g., loyal, compassionate, good cook and so on.

These qualities are your standards.

2) Figure out your desired outcome with a woman.

Then ask yourself: For you to achieve your desired outcome, what self-image would she need to have?

Maybe your desired outcome is to play tonsil hockey with her minutes after meeting her.

For her to be okay with you kissing her after knowing you for only a couple minutes, she’d need to be adventurous and spontaneous.

The next step is to turn these standards into challenges.

So let’s assume you want to kiss a girl minutes after meeting her.

Challenge her with, “Are you adventurous?”

She’ll say, “Yes.”

Then high five her with both hands, hold onto her hands, and say, “Good, ’cause I only date adventurous girls.”

Next, push her hands away a teensy bit without letting go and say, “I’m still not sure you can handle me. What makes you adventurous?”

After she qualifies, pull her close, wrap your hands around her sacrum, and say, “You’re awesome.”

Without releasing your hands, push her away a little and say, “I’m still not sure this relationship is gonna work out. Are you spontaneous?”

After she says, “Yes,” pull her in close and ask, “If you were in kissing school, what grade would your teacher give you?”

She’ll inevitably brag, “I’d get an A+”

Say, “Let’s find out,” and then kiss her.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

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The collective male’s attempt at piquing a woman’s interest runs the gamut from demonstrating a lightning-quick wit and sharing interesting stories about himself to doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey’s circus.

But more often than not, her eyes wander to her cell phone and then meander to the people behind him.

In fact, just about everything in her environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as…

1). She must think I am ugly as sin.

2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese?

3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant?

4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?

5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow’s paper?

And if he’s bitter, he might think: She’s like a warm toilet seat – some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.

Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation.

But, alas, she stings him with, “It was nice meeting you but I have to go.”

In retrospect, he may think: Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should have never used it.

Most of us have experienced something along these lines.

Many of us have thought: If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.

Although there may be a speck of truth here, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you, “The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it.”

I’ve seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night yet bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different.

For this reason…

You won’t learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article.

Instead…

I’m going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women.

But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you’ll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)…

No matter how boring you think you are (even if you think you’re more boring than a 90 year old woman living in a nursing home), I want you to promise me that you won’t change the content of what you say to women for one week.

Here’s why…

I want you to see how adding just this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success.

In school, you’re taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor.

But if you want women to hang onto your every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops.

A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open.

Whenever the human mind is presented with an open loop – unfinished idea, thought, or story – it seeks closure.

Open loops are a form of what I call “tension loops” because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman.

Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize.

Because she seeks resolution to the tension you’ve sparked in her mind and knows that you can release the tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say.

Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, “Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless.”

Chances are, she’d have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.

But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She’d feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.

And bada bing, bada boom…

This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.

Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal…

When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body.

But there’s a facet of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet…

It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.”

One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the mind retains the most information when a loop is open.

How does this help you? A woman will probably remember everything you tell her between opening up a loop and closing it.

I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians…

Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense.

How can we apply this to seduction and attraction?

Here’s an example…

When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over.

An hour – or even a few minutes – later she probably won’t remember his name or anything about him.

Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.

I may say,

“When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character.

And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome! Why didn’t you keep the name?’

And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek mythology.

But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name.

The real reason we didn’t name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete – we really loved the name.

And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Josh instead.’”

In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body.

Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.

Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a boring life,” and then moved onto another man.

But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability).

Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Do you know what charm is?

Most people don’t.

The majority of guys think charm is impressing girls with all the money and fancy cars they have. Some even end up spending thousands of dollars thinking it will make them more charming.

This has nothing to do with charm. If anything, it’s anti charm.

Most women yap on and on about their problems. Save it for therapy. No one wants to hear it. Even worse, it will kill any smidgen of charm you have.

What are charmers and what do they do?

Most of them are master manipulators. Some are even sociopaths.

However, most people are so worried about themselves that they cannot discern when the charmer is manipulating them.

There’s another thing that prevents us from recognizing when the charmer is manipulating us.

There’s a misconception in our culture that manipulators and sociopaths lack the ability to empathize.

But most manipulators and sociopaths are masters empathizing.

The word “empathy” literally means to see where the other person is coming from, to put yourself in the other person’s shoes.

Although many charmers are devoid of any sympathy, they are great at demonstrating empathy. This is what makes them so deadly.

While most people are only concerned with themselves, the charmer makes the other person feel that he understands them.

He also recedes into the background and allows others to shine.

By doing this he’s playing on people’s biggest weaknesses: their ego, vanity, and self-esteem.

As soon as they drop their defenses and become dependent on him, he goes in for the kill and manipulates them.

I am not suggesting you take advantage of people or mutate into a sick and twisted Sith lord.

Nonetheless, you can learn a lot from the charmer. Drop your ego and listen to women. Make them feel like the center of the universe and you’ll have them in your trap.

In no time, they’ll be buying you dinner and driving you around.

Here’s your homework:

Take a few moment to imagine a person you enjoy being around.

I’m willing to bet these are people who make you feel good about yourself. They allow you to be the center of attention and laugh at your jokes.

That’s how you want to make women feel.

Why? Because when we like someone we are willing to go out of our way for him.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

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Here’s a great quote. While reading it, you will learn a lot about what triggers attraction.

“Oglethorpe’s farm stood a mile or so to the south of Bridgewater on the right bank of the river. It was a straggling Tudor building showing gray above the ivy that clothed its lower parts. Approaching it now, through the fragrant orchards amid which it seemed to drowse in Arcadian peace beside the waters of the Parrett, sparkling in the morning sunlight, Mr. Blood might have had a difficulty in believing it part of a world tormented by strife and bloodshed.

On the bridge, as they had been riding out of Bridgewater, they had met a vanguard of fugitives from the field of battle, weary, broken men, many of them wounded, all of them terror-stricken, staggering in speedless haste with the last remnants of their strength into the shelter which it was their vain illusion the town would afford them. Eyes glazed with lassitude and fear looked up piteously out of haggard faces at Mr. Blood and his companion as they rode forth; hoarse voices cried a warning that merciless pursuit was not far behind. Undeterred, however, young Pitt rode amain along the dusty road by which these poor fugitives from that swift rout on Sedgemoor came flocking in ever-increasing numbers. Presently he swung aside, and quitting the road took to a pathway that crossed the dewy meadowlands. Even here they met odd groups of these human derelicts, who were scattering in all directions, looking fearfully behind them as they came through the long grass, expecting at every moment to see the red coats of the dragoons.

But as Pitt’s direction was a southward one, bringing them ever nearer to Feversham’s headquarters, they were presently clear of that human flotsam and jetsam of the battle, and riding through the peaceful orchards heavy with the ripening fruit that was soon to make its annual yield of cider.

At last they alighted on the kidney stones of the courtyard, and Baynes, the master, of the homestead, grave of countenance and flustered of manner, gave them welcome.

In the spacious, stone-flagged hall, the doctor found Lord Gildoy – a very tall and dark young gentleman, prominent of chin and nose – stretched on a cane day-bed under one of the tall mullioned windows, in the care of Mrs. Baynes and her comely daughter. His cheeks were leaden-hued, his eyes closed, and from his blue lips came with each labored breath a faint, moaning noise.

Mr. Blood stood for a moment silently considering his patient. He deplored that a youth with such bright hopes in life as Lord Gildoy’s should have risked all, perhaps existence itself, to forward the ambition of a worthless adventurer. Because he had liked and honored this brave lad he paid his case the tribute of a sigh. Then he knelt to his task, ripped away doublet and underwear to lay bare his lordship’s mangled side, and called for water and linen and what else he needed for his work.

He was still intent upon it a half-hour later when the dragoons invaded the homestead. The clatter of hooves and hoarse shouts that heralded their approach disturbed him not at all. For one thing, he was not easily disturbed; for another, his task absorbed him. But his lordship, who had now recovered consciousness, showed considerable alarm, and the battle-stained Jeremy Pitt sped to cover in a clothes-press. Baynes was uneasy, and his wife and daughter trembled. Mr. Blood reassured them.

“Why, what’s to fear?” he said. “It’s a Christian country, this, and Christian men do not make war upon the wounded, nor upon those who harbor them.” He still had, you see, illusions about Christians. He held a glass of cordial, prepared under his directions, to his lordship’s lips. “Give your mind peace, my lord. The worst is done.”"

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I’ve got a question for you: Do women enjoy being hit on – or do they loathe it?

If you know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy it – maybe even love it – you’re well on your way to experiencing massive success with women.

If you’ve got the belief, though, that women find men hitting on them more annoying than nails against a chalk board you’re in big trouble.

But don’t worry, my friend, because you’re in the same position as most men.

Many a man believes women hate to be hit on – and rightfully so.

If you, for example, frequent bars or nightclubs, you’ve probably overheard groups of women yapping away about how they fear and loathe men hitting on them.

But if this were so, women would wear shower curtains to bars and nightclubs.

But they don’t.

They, instead, wear skimpy little outfits to maximize the amount of male attention they get.

I’m gonna return to this train of thought in a moment.

But first, I want to shed some serious light on why believing women don’t like to be hit on is akin to sentencing your penis to life in prison with no chance of parole. No hope of him ever vacationing in that warm, cuddly place he enjoys dancing into the wee hours of the morning to that old Digital Underground song “Do The Humpty Hump.” The only love he’s gonna get is from Bubba’s nether regions.

When this nefarious belief creeps its way into a man’s noggin, fear will prevent him from approaching women.

He’ll, for example, think to himself: “If I approach a woman she’ll see me as an insidious little vermin she wants shunted from her reality.”

If he does get up the gall to approach a woman, he’s gonna have scrawled across his forehead in indelible red ink: “I’m so scared you’ll reject me, I’m about to poop my pants.”

This will communicate to her, he’s a consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction for gimps. They feel attraction toward men they perceive as a Prize.

Okay. I think I’ve convinced you that this belief has the worth of a sewer rat.

But you might be having second thoughts.

Maybe you’re not fully convinced.

So I’m gonna rewind and go back to my original train of thought: The belief that women don’t like to be hit on is crap.

If this belief ever crossed paths with the Food & Drug Administration they’d stamp it with an official FDA seal reading: 100% Certified B.S.

Why do you think women spend so much time – sometimes hours – primping and preening themselves to go out to nightclubs and bars?

Because they want to be hit on.

There’s a school of thought, though, that says: “Women don’t dress up for men; they do it for other women.”

I think there’s a grain of truth here but what this means is that women dress up to compete with other women for male attention. For male validation.

In other words, one of the reasons women put time into primping and preening themselves is to compete for who gets hit on the most by men.

Many a woman will never explicitly admit she enjoys men hitting on her.

If she did, she’d risk other women perceiving her as being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter.

Wanting to be hit on is one of women’s dirty little secrets.

Think of those stupid, gossip magazines – such as, National Enquirer and Star. Almost everyone talks about the stupidity of these publications and claims to have never picked one up.

This is B.S.

If most people didn’t read them, their circulation wouldn’t be so widespread.

The lurid reality is this: Most of us can’t wait to get our dirty little paws all over these magazines while standing in line at the supermarket.

A lot of us have too much pride to admit it.

But almost all of us get picked up by our lapels and sucked into the contents of these papers.

Same holds true with women. Most women claim, they hate when guys hit on them.

But most women love it. They can’t get enough of it.

But they’ll never admit it. It’s their dirty little pleasure they don’t admit.

When you make no apologies for hitting on a woman and convey the belief that by you hitting on her you’re doing her a favor, it lets her know she’s dealing with a real man who’s a Prize she has to win over.

If you believe women want and love to be hit on, you’re half way to massive success with women.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Here’s a very seductive quote:

“On a January evening of the early seventies, Christine Nilsson was singing in Faust at the Academy of Music in New York.

Though there was already talk of the erection, in remote metropolitan distances “above the Forties,” of a new Opera House which should compete in costliness and splendor with those of the great European capitals, the world of fashion was still content to reassemble every winter in the shabby red and gold boxes of the sociable old Academy. Conservatives cherished it for being small and inconvenient, and thus keeping out the “new people” whom New York was beginning to dread and yet be drawn to; and the sentimental clung to it for its historic associations, and the musical for its excellent acoustics, always so problematic a quality in halls built for the hearing of music.

It was Madame Nilsson’s first appearance that winter, and what the daily press had already learned to describe as “an exceptionally brilliant audience” had gathered to hear her, transported through the slippery, snowy streets in private broughams, in the spacious family landau, or in the humbler but more convenient “Brown coupe” To come to the Opera in a Brown coupe was almost as honorable a way of arriving as in one’s own carriage; and departure by the same means had the immense advantage of enabling one (with a playful allusion to democratic principles) to scramble into the first Brown conveyance in the line, instead of waiting till the cold-and-gin congested nose of one’s own coachman gleamed under the portico of the Academy. It was one of the great livery-stableman’s most masterly intuitions to have discovered that Americans want to get away from amusement even more quickly than they want to get to it.

When Newland Archer opened the door at the back of the club box the curtain had just gone up on the garden scene. There was no reason why the young man should not have come earlier, for he had dined at seven, alone with his mother and sister, and had lingered afterward over a cigar in the Gothic library with glazed black-walnut bookcases and finial-topped chairs which was the only room in the house where Mrs. Archer allowed smoking. But, in the first place, New York was a metropolis, and perfectly aware that in metropolises it was “not the thing” to arrive early at the opera; and what was or was not “the thing” played a part as important in Newland Archer’s New York as the inscrutable totem terrors that had ruled the destinies of his forefathers thousands of years ago.

The second reason for his delay was a personal one. He had dawdled over his cigar because he was at heart a dilettante, and thinking over a pleasure to come often gave him a subtler satisfaction than its realization. This was especially the case when the pleasure was a delicate one, as his pleasures mostly were; and on this occasion the moment he looked forward to was so rare and exquisite in quality that–well, if he had timed his arrival in accord with the prima donna’s stage-manager he could not have entered the Academy at a more significant moment than just as she was singing: “He loves me–he loves me not–HE LOVES ME!–” and sprinkling the falling daisy petals with notes as clear as dew.

She sang, of course, “M’ama!” and not “he loves me,” since an unalterable and unquestioned law of the musical world required that the German text of French operas sung by Swedish artists should be translated into Italian for the clearer understanding of English- speaking audiences. This seemed as natural to Newland Archer as all the other conventions on which his life was molded: such as the duty of using two silver- backed brushes with his monogram in blue enamel to part his hair, and of never appearing in society without a flower (preferably a gardenia) in his buttonhole.”

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A lot of stuff in this quote reveals how to tell if a girl likes you:

“Newland Archer, during this brief episode, had been thrown into a strange state of embarrassment.

It was annoying that the box which was thus attracting the undivided attention of masculine New York should be that in which his betrothed was seated between her mother and aunt; and for a moment he could not identify the lady in the Empire dress, nor imagine why her presence created such excitement among the initiated. Then light dawned on him, and with it came a momentary rush of indignation. No, indeed; no one would have thought the Mingotts would have tried it on!

But they had; they undoubtedly had; for the low- toned comments behind him left no doubt in Archer’s mind that the young woman was May Welland’s cousin, the cousin always referred to in the family as “poor Ellen Olenska.” Archer knew that she had suddenly arrived from Europe a day or two previously; he had even heard from Miss Welland (not disapprovingly) that she had been to see poor Ellen, who was staying with old Mrs. Mingott.

Archer entirely approved of family solidarity, and one of the qualities he most admired in the Mingotts was their resolute championship of the few black sheep that their blameless stock had produced. There was nothing mean or ungenerous in the young man’s heart, and he was glad that his future wife should not be restrained by false prudery from being kind (in private) to her unhappy cousin; but to receive Countess Olenska in the family circle was a different thing from producing her in public, at the Opera of all places, and in the very box with the young girl whose engagement to him, Newland Archer, was to be announced within a few weeks.

No, he felt as old Sillerton Jackson felt; he did not think the Mingotts would have tried it on!”

Study what I wrote.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family woman, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Here’s a great excerpt from Napoleon Hill’s Think And Grow Rich on influencing the subconscious mind:

AUTO-SUGGESTION is a term which applies to al1 suggestions and all self-administered stimuli which reach one’s mind through the five senses. Stated in another way, auto-suggestion is self-suggestion. It is the agency of communication between that part of the mind where conscious thought takes place, and that which serves as the seat of action for the subconscious mind.

Through the dominating thoughts which one permits to remain in the conscious mind, (whether these thoughts be negative or positive, is immaterial), the principle of auto-suggestion voluntarily reaches the subconscious mind and influences it with these thoughts.

NO THOUGHT, whether it be negative or positive, CAN ENTER THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND WITHOUT THE AID OF THE PRINCIPLE OF AUTO-SUGGESTION, with the exception of thoughts picked up from the ether. Stated differently, all sense impressions which are perceived through the five senses, are stopped by the CONSCIOUS thinking mind, and may be either passed on to the subconscious mind, or rejected, at will. The conscious faculty serves, therefore, as an outer-guard to the approach of the subconscious.

Nature has so built man that he has ABSOLUTE CONTROL over the material which reaches his subconscious mind, through his five senses, although this is not meant to be construed as a statement that man always EXERCISES this control. In the great majority of instances, he does NOT exercise it, which explains why so many people go through life in poverty.

Recall what has been said about the subconscious mind resembling a fertile garden spot, in which weeds will grow in abundance, if the seeds of more desirable crops are not sown therein. AUTO-SUGGESTION is the agency of control through which an individual may voluntarily feed his subconscious mind on thoughts of a creative nature, or, by neglect, permit thoughts of a destructive nature to find their way into this rich garden of the mind.

You were instructed, in the last of the six steps described in the chapter on Desire, to read ALOUD twice daily the WRITTEN statement of your DESIRE FOR MONEY, and to SEE AND FEEL yourself ALREADY in possession of the money! By following these instructions, you communicate the object of your DESIRE directly to your SUBCONSCIOUS mind in a spirit of absolute FAITH. Through repetition of this procedure, you voluntarily create thought habits which are favorable to your efforts to transmute desire into its monetary equivalent.

Go back to these six steps described in chapter two, and read them again, very carefully, before you proceed further. Then (when you come to it), read very carefully the four instructions for the organization of your “Master Mind” group, described in the chapter on Organized Planning. By comparing these two sets of instructions with that which has been stated on auto-suggestion, you, of course, will see that the instructions involve the application of the principle of auto-suggestion.

Remember, therefore, when reading aloud the statement of your desire (through which you are endeavoring to develop a “money consciousness”), that the mere reading of the words is of NO CONSEQUENCE- UNLESS you mix emotion, or feeling with your words. If you repeat a million times the famous Emil Cou formula, “Day by day, in every way, I am getting better and better,” without mixing emotion and FAITH with your words, you will experience no desirable results. Your subconscious mind recognizes and acts upon ONLY thoughts which have been well-mixed with emotion or feeling.

This is a fact of such importance as to warrant repetition in practically every chapter, because the lack of understanding of this is the main reason the majority of people who try to apply the principle of auto-suggestion get no desirable results.

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