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Some people seem to have a special something that attracts others in droves – yet it’s not obvious exactly what it is.

Perhaps you have known a person who possesses this mystical attribute.

What exactly is it? What’s it called?

The phenomenon I’m referring to is charisma.

Have you ever wondered: is charisma some innate quality you’re born with or is it something you can develop?

Many psychologists will tell you it’s something you’re born with.

But I’m a firm believer that it’s something you can develop.

Today I’m going to share two qualities you can develop that will make you more charismatic.

1) Being More Mysterious:

There are two sides to this.

The first is manifesting attributes about yourself that are at odds with each other.

An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.

When you manifest traits that are at odds with each other people cannot pigeonhole you.

When they cannot figure you out, they become entranced.

The second part is being uncanny.

When people think you have supernatural powers they see you as charismatic.

This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.

2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:

If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they’ll see you as a super charismatic person.

John F. Kennedy was a master at this.

He spellbound America when he said, “It’s not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”

That’s because he inspired people to be better than they are.

Here’s your homework:

1) Think of a couple of your attributes that are at odds with with one another. Instead of hiding them, hone them and let them shine in their full glory.

2) Whenever a friend is feeling down think of how you can make them see themselves in a better light.

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Since we were small children we were taught to act manly and dominant.

We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.

We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.

Let’s look at an example.

I want you to do something educational: schlep over to a toy store.

At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren’t supposed to go into the girl’s section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.

In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

In the girl’s section you’ll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.

These toys aren’t just “toys.” They’re teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That’s because they fear he won’t be properly inculcated into the role of a man.

As a result, most boys grow up to become men fearful of acting like a woman.

There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”

They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.

In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.

But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.

Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.

Dandies have an impudence towards pleasing women. Ironically, women find this quality intoxicating.

To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.

I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: “I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”

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Years ago a friend of mine told me a story that changed my whole perspective on dating and attracting women

A bunch of frogs decided to have a race up a huge tower.

Whoever makes it to the top of the tower first will win the race, they determined.

A huge crowd gathered around the little frogs. No one believed the tiny frogs had a chance at making it to the top of the tower.

People from the crowd heckled the frogs with, “You’re way too small to climb that tower. You will never make it!”

Sure enough, heaps of frogs slid off the tower.

The crowd heckled louder, and the rest of the frogs tumbled down – except for one. The crowd continued to berate and snicker at him.

But he slogged his way to the top.

Do you know why?

He was deaf.

Contained within this story is an important lesson about attracting and succeeding with women. I’m going to discuss it in a minute.

But first…

Have you ever noticed that most ladies men see reality different from the average man?

An ordinary man, for example, might perceive a woman as showing little to no interest in him.

But transplant a ladies man’s brain into his skull and he’ll see the same woman as a little pervert who can’t keep her dirty paws off him.

Though, my friend, this is only half the story…

Similar to the deaf frog, most ladies men are blind and deaf to certain facets of reality. (This is a big part of what makes them disgustingly good at attracting women.)

When a woman hisses a crippling putdown, most men feel like she’s pulling their heart out and stepping on it.

But the ladies man eliminates these words from his reality or interprets them as meaning that she’s trying to play hard-to-get because she knows he’s a good catch.

If a ladies man approaches a woman and she demands, “Scat loser!” he doesn’t have an I’m-gonna-cry mentality. Instead, he fails to notice the bitter words flowing from her lips.

Most mortal men have a voice of doubt that snakes into their ears every time they want to push forward with a woman.

If they want to approach a girl, the voice might sneer, “She’s out of your league. She’d never go for you.” If they want to kiss her, the voice of doubt might scream, “She’s not attracted to you! Spare yourself the embarrassment!”

Sound familiar?

The ladies man, similar to ordinary men, has a voice of doubt too.

But because he’s deaf to negative forces, he can’t hear the voice. The only time his hearing improves is when the voice starts saying things that empower him to take action with women.

“Can an ordinary man see reality like a ladies man?” you might be wondering.

Yes, any man can learn to see the world like a ladies man does. The key is to develop the right beliefs for succeeding with and attracting women.

Beliefs create a direction or focus of attention for the mind.

One of my friends, for example, believes women aren’t attracted to him. Because his focus of attention is on women not feeling attraction toward him, he’s always noticing how women aren’t attracted to him.

Likewise, I’ve seen women who looked like they wanted him so bad that they’d have sold their children into slavery to get a piece of him. But he couldn’t see it.

On the other hand, I know a guy barely hovering above five-foot-three whose belly juts out further than his hyperthyroid eyes. He drinks like a fish and stinks like a skunk. To make matters worse, he’s missing a hand.

It used to make me cringe to see him approach women. He’d almost always start off on the wrong foot. But he doesn’t see this. He believes all women want him. Like a high-powered laser beam, he’s always focusing on and looking for every aspect in which women are attracted to him.

But something weird happens in his interactions with women. The first time I witnessed it, it gave me the creeps. (Note: What you’re about to read is an important piece to why ladies men are devastatingly effective with women.)

He takes women from wanting to shoot pepper spray in his eyes to feeling compelled to kiss him. He can mutate a churning stomach into a belly full of attraction.

“But how?” you might be thinking.

There are some deep psychological reasons…

Most people are burden with weak and pliable beliefs. More often than not, when two people are interacting, the person with the weaker belief system takes on the beliefs of the person with the stronger.

What this means for you

A woman might think you’re uglier than a wildebeest. But if you believe she’s attracted to you, she’ll start believing it as well.

Josh Lubens, a relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and specializes in teaching men how to seduce women.

I’ve got a question for you…

Have you ever been shot down by a woman? – be honest. I, for example, have been rejected more times than I’d like to admit.

For the collective average male, rejection plain sucks. There’s nothing fun about it.

But a select group of ladies’ men actually enjoy being rejected.

You might be thinking, “Sounds like these guys are masochists.” Far from it. They revel in rejection because of a few secrets they possess that most men don’t.

Most men think when a woman rejects them, they are doomed.

But ladies’ men know that what kills most men’s chances with a woman is their reaction to her rejecting them.

Plus ladies’ men have the skills and knowledge to mutate rejection into attraction at their whim.

I’m going to teach you step-by-step how to do this, so the next time a woman rejects you, you can mutate it into attraction.

But first I want to introduce you to some key attraction principles. These principles lay the foundation for what you’re about to learn.

1). Prizability: Women are attracted to men they perceive as the Prize. Prizability is the degree to which a woman sees you as the Prize.

2). The Meta-Frame: Every male-female interaction has a meta-frame or underlying meaning. When you establish and maintain the Meta-Frame that you are the Prize the woman is trying to win over, attracting her becomes as easy as tying your shoe. But when the meta-frame is her as the Prize you are trying to win over, triggering attraction in her is next to impossible.

Imagine talking to a woman and just as things are getting hot and heavy she hisses the all too familiar words: “I have a boyfriend.”

If you interpret these words as her rejecting you and walk away or apologize for hitting on her, she becomes the Prize in the interaction. Bad thing!

If you take her words as meaning her boyfriend is a barrier you have to get past and attempt to prove to her that you’d make a better boyfriend than her current one, once again, you’re setting the meta-frame that she’s the Prize you are trying to win over.

“So how in the world can you mutate the words ‘I have boyfriend’ into attraction?” you might be wondering.

Instead of interpreting the crippling words “I have a boyfriend” as meaning that she’s rejecting you, interpret them as her trying to impress you.

So the next time a woman says, “I have a boyfriend,” try: “Good. In the morning he can bring us breakfast in bed but if the orange juice isn’t fresh, I’m gonna club him.”

One of two things will happen…

She’ll completely get sucked into the Meta-frame that you are the Prize she is trying to win over.

Or…

She won’t fall into your Meta-frame but will know that you are unwilling to get sucked into hers.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Here’s a great quote from The Messenger:

“Peter Blood, bachelor of medicine and several other things besides, smoked a pipe and tended the geraniums boxed on the sill of his window above Water Lane in the town of Bridgewater.

Sternly disapproving eyes considered him from a window opposite, but went disregarded. Mr. Blood’s attention was divided between his task and the stream of humanity in the narrow street below; a stream which poured for the second time that day towards Castle Field, where earlier in the afternoon Ferguson, the Duke’s chaplain, had preached a sermon containing more treason than divinity.

These straggling, excited groups were mainly composed of men with green boughs in their hats and the most ludicrous of weapons in their hands. Some, it is true, shouldered fowling pieces, and here and there a sword was brandished; but more of them were armed with clubs, and most of them trailed the mammoth pikes fashioned out of scythes, as formidable to the eye as they were clumsy to the hand. There were weavers, brewers, carpenters, smiths, masons, bricklayers, cobblers, and representatives of every other of the trades of peace among these improvised men of war. Bridgewater, like Taunton, had yielded so generously of its manhood to the service of the bastard Duke that for any to abstain whose age and strength admitted of his bearing arms was to brand himself a coward or a papist.

Yet Peter Blood, who was not only able to bear arms, but trained and skilled in their use, who was certainly no coward, and a papist only when it suited him, tended his geraniums and smoked his pipe on that warm July evening as indifferently as if nothing were afoot. One other thing he did. He flung after those war-fevered enthusiasts a line of Horace – a poet for whose work he had early conceived an inordinate affection:

“Quo, quo, scelesti, ruitis?”

And now perhaps you guess why the hot, intrepid blood inherited from the roving sires of his Somersetshire mother remained cool amidst all this frenzied fanatical heat of rebellion; why the turbulent spirit which had forced him once from the sedate academical bonds his father would have imposed upon him, should now remain quiet in the very midst of turbulence. You realize how he regarded these men who were rallying to the banners of liberty – the banners woven by the virgins of Taunton, the girls from the seminaries of Miss Blake and Mrs. Musgrove, who – as the ballad runs – had ripped open their silk petticoats to make colors for King Monmouth’s army. That Latin line, contemptuously flung after them as they clattered down the cobbled street, reveals his mind. To him they were fools rushing in wicked frenzy upon their ruin.”

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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This quote from The Secret Garden illuminates how to speak and write romantically:

“When Mary Lennox was sent to Misselthwaite Manor to live with her uncle everybody said she was the most disagreeable-looking child ever seen. It was true, too. She had a little thin face and a little thin body, thin light hair and a sour expression. Her hair was yellow, and her face was yellow because she had been born in India and had always been ill in one way or another. Her father had held a position under the English Government and had always been busy and ill himself, and her mother had been a great beauty who cared only to go to parties and amuse herself with gay people. She had not wanted a little girl at all, and when Mary was born she handed her over to the care of an Ayah, who was made to understand that if she wished to please the Mem Sahib she must keep the child out of sight as much as possible. So when she was a sickly, fretful, ugly little baby she was kept out of the way, and when she became a sickly, fretful, toddling thing she was kept out of the way also. She never remembered seeing familiarly anything but the dark faces of her Ayah and the other native servants, and as they always obeyed her and gave her her own way in everything, because the Mem Sahib would be angry if she was disturbed by her crying, by the time she was six years old she was as tyrannical and selfish a little pig as ever lived. The young English governess who came to teach her to read and write disliked her so much that she gave up her place in three months, and when other governesses came to try to fill it they always went away in a shorter time than the first one. So if Mary had not chosen to really want to know how to read books she would never have learned her letters at all.

One frightfully hot morning, when she was about nine years old, she awakened feeling very cross, and she became crosser still when she saw that the servant who stood by her bedside was not her Ayah.

“Why did you come?” she said to the strange woman. “I will not let you stay. Send my Ayah to me.”

The woman looked frightened, but she only stammered that the Ayah could not come and when Mary threw herself into a passion and beat and kicked her, she looked only more frightened and repeated that it was not possible for the Ayah to come to Missie Sahib.

There was something mysterious in the air that morning. Nothing was done in its regular order and several of the native servants seemed missing, while those whom Mary saw slunk or hurried about with ashy and scared faces. But no one would tell her anything and her Ayah did not come. She was actually left alone as the morning went on, and at last she wandered out into the garden and began to play by herself under a tree near the veranda. She pretended that she was making a flower-bed, and she stuck big scarlet hibiscus blossoms into little heaps of earth, all the time growing more and more angry and muttering to herself the things she would say and the names she would call Saidie when she returned.

“Pig! Pig! Daughter of Pigs!” she said, because to call a native a pig is the worst insult of all.

She was grinding her teeth and saying this over and over again when she heard her mother come out on the veranda with some one. She was with a fair young man and they stood talking together in low strange voices. Mary knew the fair young man who looked like a boy. She had heard that he was a very young officer who had just come from England. The child stared at him, but she stared most at her mother. She always did this when she had a chance to see her, because the Mem Sahib–Mary used to call her that oftener than anything else–was such a tall, slim, pretty person and wore such lovely clothes. Her hair was like curly silk and she had a delicate little nose which seemed to be disdaining things, and she had large laughing eyes. All her clothes were thin and floating, and Mary said they were “full of lace.” They looked fuller of lace than ever this morning, but her eyes were not laughing at all. They were large and scared and lifted imploringly to the fair boy officer’s face.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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